There is a lot of truth to the notion that men are visually stimulated. Men are attracted first by what they see. Make a good first impression because if he does not like what he sees, he will probably not pursue. If you wonder how to attract a guy, the best way is to have some eye appeal. Dress attractively and even sexy, but not too over the top. Leave a little to his imagination and he will want to find out more about you. Guys seem to like long and flowing hair. Men don't care for 'helmet hair' or severe, old-fashioned styles.
If you want to catch a guys attention, and you feel you have beautiful legs wear something that can call the attention on them, don't dress like their granny. An additional way to get a man's attention is to show how curious you are about him. Each man has a ego and desire that a female caress his ego. Compliment him and that will attract him. As a teenager, I was gangly, awkward, had bad skin and thick ankles. I had wide shoulders and my mother said that I was big boned. I had to wear hand me downs in high school, so I just knew no boys would like me and I would never get married.
Well, I was wrong. I was lucky that I found a nice guy to date for almost three years, but I broke up with him. I wanted to know that I could have a boyfriend again, that it wasn't just a one time thing. Needing to get some more dating experience, it was important to find out what qualities I might actually possess that would be truly irresistible to men. I had trouble competing against curvy girls in college because of my natural introversion. Once I had managed to have one good relationship, I felt confident I could have others.
I just had to stick to my belief system. Putting myself first while showing interest in the men I liked, made it easy for them to like me. It didn't matter about my clothes, my hairstyle or the color of my eyes. It all boiled down to who I was. A very simple secret to my success with the opposite sex! how to be a hot woman - without all the gimmicks Sex appeal requires the ability to appeal to those who are interested. This does not involve magic, watching a video, or changing your name to something embarassing.
(Though there are rare cases when this may actually benefit someone.) The difference between attractive and unattractive is confidence and attention. Let's take confidence for a moment. If a woman does not have confidence, she will be alone drinking her beer, physically telling everyone to stay away from her. Is she looking good to anyone? Is she making people run in the other direction? (There may be those attracted to the vulnerable case, but these usually aren't who you yourself want attracted to you.) Therefore, confidence is a key to being a super hot woman.
I'm not saying to treat all men as dirt. That's arrogance. What I am describing is confidence to the point of poise. You know that you're worthy of only the best and you project that through that confidence. It is then easy to say no to those who aren't good enough and be an equal to those who are. Attention is another factor in being a super hot woman. If you're dressed in the red dress from 'lady in red', it is a total let down to have a dark stain down the front of your dress. The same goes for messy hair, horrible makeup fitting for a clown, or any otherwise unkempt detail.
Therefore, attention to your appearance is important. Attention to others is also a crucial requirement to being a super hot woman. If a woman walks into a room, fully confident in herself but not attentive to the room, the moment she falls over a stair step, she loses all credibility. Pay attention to your surroundings. And to become even more attractive, pay attention to those who are paying attention to you. Being absorbed in only yourself results in looking like a Greek statue - pretty to look at, then interest lost in the exhibit.
Why? Guys want a woman who wants them. Even if it is only eye contact and a brief smile, interactivity - paying attention to those paying attention to you - will make all men waver. Even paying a little attention to them will make them see you as beautiful. Add confidence, attractive appearance and attention to all the details (including the men) will make you a super hot woman.