Many women are feeling themselves very unconfident when at dates. They think too much of how they look and what they say, which prevents them from being who they really are. If you recognize yourself in these words, the hardest part is over – you were able to confess it. And here are some tips for you to make a perfect date:
• Behave naturally. While it sounds a very hard thing to do, there is no other good way to behave for you. It is a great mistake to try to be someone who you are not, someone you think your date wants you to be. But in fact your date will like you only on one condition – if you just keep being yourself. People are able to feel instantly when someone is behaving unnaturally. And besides, they are very likely to have the same worries and fears as you do.
• Don’t be late. It is a bad thing to do, especially on the first date. Five minutes later are alright, but keeping your date waiting for an hour will spoil the whole evening for you both.
• Don’t talk about your problems. Complaining about your life is the last thing you have to do on a date. Instead show your most positive features and concentrate on the positive features of your date, even if you don’t like something, or if you have some life problems currently.
• Some other topics not to talk on. It is undesirable to speak about your health, your relatives and their problems, work and money, your worries, past relationships, politics, religion and history. These may all be quite interesting topics, but nit when you are just getting to know someone.
• Don’t deny compliments. If your date makes you a compliment, the worst thing you can do is deny it. “Oh, come on”, or “What a lie”, or “You are just flattering me” are double-faced phrases – depending on the intonation they can change the situation either for the better or for the worse. If you say it with unhidden sadness or feeling or inferiority, you will simply offend your date. But saying it with a pleased and charming smile and your eyes down will be very good. But don’t overact, ‘cause if you say something like “Yeah, you bet I look gorgeous”, you can just as well ruin everything.
• Don’t be afraid to disagree. Some people feel guilty when disagreeing with someone’s point of view and that is why they avoid doing this. But if you will just nod and say yes, you will be uninteresting. There is no need to fight over something, but speaking your mind is necessary.
• Don’t ask too much questions. It is a very bad habit, because people feel uncomfortable having to answer some weird questions again and again. Your date will most likely be tired of this, if not frightened.
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