OK. You have joined 2 dating services and written a killer profile. You've uploaded a good picture and now you're going to chat with a contact. What now? How do you start separating those who have real potential and people who don't have any potential at all? You want to discover something about who this strange woman truly is and not just who she wants you to believe she is . It might be nice if ladies wore labels like "Gold Digger" or "Daddy's girl"....but they don't so it's down to you to find these things out and you cannot just ask direct questions. You have to know what mistakes you can avoid making and how to impress this woman if you decide you want to do that.
After you are past the opening tiny talk, ask her, "What are the most embarrassing mistakes guys make when dating online?" Listen fastidiously to her answers. She's going to tell you a lot about herself and her perspectives on men in general.
Next you need to ask her, "What do you think about online dating?" Now she will tell you if she's had any bad experiences dating o line and help you to avoid making the same stuff wrong.
After That try to pinpoint her tolerance for risk. This is really true if {you're|you are] an entrepreneur or run a home-based business as different risk tolerance levels can mean disaster for your relationship.
Now for the all-important one....."What caused the split up in your last relationship?" If she puts all of the blame on the fellow, you need to doubtless move on to the following prospect. If she takes all of the blame herself, you must likely do the same. If she is saying the breakup was by mutual consent or the relationship just wasn't right for either of them, you've heard the correct answer. Go on but always with caution.
Asking the proper questions will give you understanding and make you more confident when you meet the woman for the first time.