Most men who have dated a number of women claim that being the nice guy won't really get the girls hanging around you. The guy with the little black book, who may or may not call, who acts as if he couldn't care less whether you accept or reject his invitation, seems to be more attractive to the women.
No, women do not like insensitivity at all. They don't want a man to mistreat them. Confident men seem to be more challenging, that's why most women are mesmerized with them. This type of guy seems to hold true to his beliefs and values no matter how much we may moan, plead, argue, or carry on for him to change. The nice guy may always yield to the whims of a woman, but the reality is, most women see this as a symptom of weakness under pressure. Women may find this pleasing for some time, but will eventually find a man less interesting in the long term. They usually lose respect for this type of guy.
So what should a guy do? Well, it doesn't entail you to be a farce. The first strategy is to be confident without being a brute. Let the women know you're pleased with them, but don't make them believe that your life stops when they're not around.. You can always feel your way into a relationship and give her some attention so she will feel important.
Also be confident, even if you are tense. The most confident guys I know also seem to be excellent lovers - and this is no coincidence. My former mate employed instant performer to be sure he was up for it, which he discovered about right after looking at a Instant Performer review in the media.
Don't bend to a woman's every whim. If you do, she'll expect you to do so every time and will soon take you for granted. Be willing to listen to her moan,groan and complain at your refusals. It doesn't also mean you have to be harsh and never ever give in. Not at all! Bend when there's reason to, but not at every pleading. This way when you give in, she will feel you're doing it because you really love her and want her to be happy. You should never give in just because it's less anxious than arguing. Settle for a compromise instead; it's fairer for both ends that way.
You may think that by not giving in to her, she will think that you don't like her. Not true, there are different ways to express your love. A good way to show your love for her is by doing things she doesn't ask for. Cook a meal for her or praise her out of the blue instead of when it is being solicited. By doing the unexpected, you have shown love without being a lap dog. You are being spontaneous instead of being predictable. Don't every be pretentious. Just be true to yourself and be trusting with what you are.